All This Wandering
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Anon: It's a big deal when this isn't the only time you've been lied too. Considering his past, as well as my past relationships, it's only natural for me to be concerned. Trust issues are extremely common, especially among long distance relationships. If it's so easy to lie about something as small as who you're spending all your time with, imagine how much easier it is to lie about something larger. As someone who has always been 110% honest and faithful, I think I deserve honesty in return.
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That was something for you and her, not just you. I'm sure she will see it soon enough. I hope you both find your way to (a) healthier relationship(s).
Anonymous
I sincerely hope that we can work it out
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You must accept that you both have flaws, in not only your relationship, but your lives, if you are seeking some sort of reconciliation with her. You cannot exaggerate your faults and minimize hers. That simply is not healthy or fair to either of you. Anonymous
you may be right, and that’s something that I should work on.
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It seems like you constantly have to prove that you're good enough for her. That seems really one-sided, do you ever make her have to prove that she is good enough for you? Anonymous
She has done more than enough to show me that she’s wonderful. She doesn’t even have to try. She’s always been honest and real with me, and that’s all I could ever hope for.
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Why does it have to be such a big fuckin' deal. Why can't it just be "I'm sorry, it won't happen again." "Okay, I love you" "I love you too" Anonymous
Because if its this now, for all she knows I could lie over and over again, and though I know I won’t, I have to show her that.
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If something as small as playing video games or being in a dorm lounge is such an issue there must be other problems between you two. Maybe an end was inevitable. Maybe this is nothing. Anonymous
Overall I just haven’t been a very good boyfriend to her. I hope that some how I can show her that she really means the world to me.
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Why did you have to lie about being in your dorm lounge playing video games? Anonymous
I tried to fix a problem that wasn’t really a problem and I made it worse and now I feel awful about it and lost the love of my life.
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That seems a little dramatic... Anonymous
It really isn’t. I haven’t been the kind of boyfriend she deserves, nor the one I know I can be.
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Oh her posts made it seem like you did the same thing to her recently. I'm sorry to hear that. Anonymous
I was dumb enough to lie and not tell her when I was in my dorm lounge playing video games. Neither one is remotely acceptable and I regret every second of it.
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Didn't you do that to your current girlfriend? Anonymous
No. I went behind someones back unfortunately to talk to her. I regret putting myself in such a position because it wasn’t fair to either person, but I also feel like I have moved past that immaturity and can move on.
I also don’t think mackenzie likes being called my girlfriend right now, as much as I wish she were.
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Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend? Anonymous
No. I have in the past gone behind a girlfriend to talk to another girl, but I have matured since then and have realized how pointless and stupid it is to betray someone like that.
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I’m just going to watch Winnie the Pooh and cry myself to sleep
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What did you have to do today? Did it go well like you wanted? Anonymous
I had to straighten some things out, among other things. It went wonderfully I think.
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please let tomorrow go well.
please let this whole thing go well.
please.
